So yesterday my friend asked me an interesting question: “Is my dildo too big?”. I was a bit shocked and, to be honest, a bit embarrassed too! To be honest, I’m not exactly sure how to answer her question.
On one hand, vibrators it could be the perfect size. After all, sex toys too big could be uncomfortable, whereas just the right size could be the most pleasurable experience. On the other hand, maybe it’s too small. Maybe having a smaller size provides better accuracy, yet potential pleasure might be lost.
For me, the perfect size is subjective and different for everyone. Investigating what works for you and what what doesn’t is key. When it comes to pleasure, it’s all about finding the balance between comfort and the experience you desire.
My friend also asked me if I’d ever faced the same conundrum. To tell the truth, I hadn’t! I was sure to keep all of my purchases in line with my comfort levels. I always make sure to shop for toys that are within the size range of what I’m used to and comfortable with.
Another important factor is materials. This not only affects the size of the toy, but also the feel, the odor, and whether or not it contains any allergens. My friend told me she opted for a silicone toy in a larger size, which I explained how it’ll absorb body heat quickly and be more comfortable to use than other materials.
When exploring a wide range of sizes, the most important factor is making sure the dildo doesn’t disconnect from its base or be too cumbersome. I advised her to get a toy with a flat base, so she won’t have to worry about it slipping out of her hand.
No matter the size, safety should always be paramount. Hygiene and avoiding abrasions is important – it’s best to focus on materials such as silicone and glass, and make sure to use plenty of lubricant.
In the end, it’s important to remember that everyone is entitled to their own body, their own desires, and their own preferences. And in the end, it’s all about finding the ideal size for you that provides the most pleasure and comfort.