It wasn’t until recently that I started to think more deeply about sex dolls and how they could fit into modern society. I did some research and quickly discovered that there are people out there who actually use them for sexual pleasure. While I can’t say that I fully agree with this, I can understand why some people might consider a sex doll a safe and sanitary option for having sex.
To explore the topic more fully, I spoke with someone I know who owns a sex doll. They couldn’t go into too much detail about their experience but it did give me some insight into why people might choose to have sex with a sex doll. They explained to me that it’s a great way to explore your own sexuality, with without the fear of passing a disease on to someone else, or vibrators the worry of not knowing how to handle a real partner in the bedroom.
That answer really made me think about sex dolls in different ways. I thought about how there are arguably some positives that could arise from this concept. For example, sex dolls could provide a safe outlet for people who are not comfortable with sex to practice and explore their own sexual satisfaction. It also reduces the risk of unplanned pregnancies or STDs.
When thinking about the negatives, my first thought was about the implications on real relationships. People may grow so comfortable sleeping with dolls that they can lose an interest in engaging with actual men and women, which, of course, can have some devastating effects.
Thinking about it further, I also wondered how sex dolls would impact society if they become more widespread. Sure, there are the positives of them being used for safer sex, but might some individuals use them as a substitute for genuine intimacy and relationships? I’m really not sure, but it does make me a bit uncomfortable.
I guess finally, I’m just struggling with wanting to accept this new trend of dolls for sex in society, while also not wanting to be too judgmental of it. It’s certainly an interesting topic for me.