Ahhh, taking long dildos. I’m not sure what’s more intimidating: Penis Rings the idea of it or the look of it! But don’t let fear run your life. There are plenty of ways to make sure the whole process doesn’t make you want to curl up into a ball and weep!
First things first, let’s start with the basics. Make sure your dildo is properly sanitized before use. This is especially important if it’s a new dildo. You’ll want to clean it with hot, soapy water, or an alcohol-based cleaner, to make sure there are no bacteria or other nastiness.
Now the fun can begin! You will want to lubricate your dildo, both for comfort and for an easier insertion. This can be done either manually or with an applicator. I prefer to use lube that is either water-based or hybrid, mainly because silicone lube can corrode silicone-based dildos.
Second, if you’re feeling daring, you can tease yourself with the dildo by rubbing it against your erogenous zones. This can feel very pleasurable, and it will help build up anticipation for insertion.
Once you’re ready, slowly start to insert your dildo into your body. It can take some time to get used to the size, and you may feel the urge to take deep breaths. I suggest that, when breathing, you focus on each inhalation and exhalation, as this will help to relax the body and with the insertion. After a few moments, it should settle into place. Make sure to use plenty of lube if you need it; sometimes the natural lubrication we have may not be enough.
When the dildo is fully inserted, you can start exploring different sensations. Try using the dildo to massage different parts of your body, such as the G-spot or prostate. Adding stimulation to the area can be incredibly pleasurable, and you may want to experiment with different speeds and rhythms.
Third, try different positions. Depending on your anatomy, the level of stimulation can vary. So if it’s not feeling as good as you’d like, try moving around and see what works best. You may even find that certain positions are more stimulating with the dildo.
Fourth, don’t forget about the power of fantasies. When inserting the dildo, you can focus on a certain person or scene in order to bring about a higher level of arousal. Some people even use erotica or porn as a way to get into the zone!
Fifth, keep the fundamental safety tips in mind. Stay hydrated, take breaks if you need to, use plenty of lube, and always be aware of your body and its boundaries.
Finally, don’t forget the most important step of all: having fun! Taking long dildos may seem intimidating at first but, with enough patience and experimentation, you can find a lot of pleasure in the process. And who knows – with enough practice, you may even find yourself craving a giant one!