I recently saw a segment on HBO’s ‘Real Sex’ about four women who got together to fuck a male sex doll. It was such a bizarre and fascinating subject – something so out of the ordinary that I had to watch it till the end.
The segment showcased these four women, who were all in their late twenties to mid thirties. They discussed how they’d been using sex toys on their own, but had never ventured into male sex dolls before. They were excited about the concept and wanted to explore it more.
The segment also featured an interview with a sex expert, who emphasized how this kind of play could be beneficial for women, providing them with an opportunity to explore their sexuality in a safe and consensual manner. It made sense to me; these women were clearly hoping to gain a deeper understanding of their own desires and fulfil them in a more intentional way than they had done previously.
The four women then took their male sex dolls to a nearby bedroom to experiment. They explored the doll’s features, from its various sizes and shapes of appendages to its various textures. They then started caressing and kissing it together, playing with its body and enjoying the sensations.
The women used their hands and tongues to bring the doll to life, and were clearly having a great time. Some even seemed to get lost in the moment, having just as much fun as if they were could be with a real person. There was something so liberating about it; the kind of raw and uninhibited sexual pleasure that comes from being able to do whatever you want with a sex toy without having to worry about offending anyone or facing social judgement.
The segment also highlighted how an embarrassment of choice can be something of a challenge. There seemed to be a never-ending array of sex toys, from dildos to blow-up dolls, all just waiting to be explored. I felt sad for the times when women, or anyone really, felt limited by society’s expectations of what was normal.
The last part of the segment explored the concept of ‘wife sharing’ and the impact it can have on relationships. Despite its unconventional nature, the segment suggested that if done the right way, such a kind of arrangement could be hugely beneficial and satisfying for both members of the couple. It really opened my eyes to the idea that sex dolls can be a way to explore, Penis Rings without having to compromise on relationships.
The women in the segment concluded by saying that although sex dolls are no replacement for real human connection, they do have their own unique appeal. I couldn’t agree more. The appeal of being able to explore and experiment with someone, without having to worry about feeling judged or having to please someone else. To me, that’s the true beauty of sex dolls.
To expand on this topic, let’s look at the concept of ‘digisexuality’. Digisexuality refers to people who derive most of their sexual pleasure and sexual satisfaction from digital platforms, virtual reality or sex robots. One of the advantages of this kind of sexual exploration is that people can explore different kinds of sexual fantasies without fear of judgement. It can also be a great way to learn more about yourself and your sexuality without any potential risks.
Another area that could lend to digisexuality is teledildonics. This is the use of technology to connect sex toys with computers, tablets or smartphones. This can open up a whole new world of sexual exploration and pleasure for those who want to go beyond the conventional sex toys. It can also be a great way to connect with people who are located across the globe – getting to experience virtual sex with someone on the other side of the world without having to meet them in person.
Those who don’t feel comfortable or confident enough to be open about their sexuality and explore these kinds of experiences with another person can choose to play alone, with virtual reality or in an online community. The possibilities are seemingly endless, and can be incredibly empowering.
Finally, those who are looking for a more intimate and ‘real’ experience can consider using sex dolls. In recent years, the technology has advanced to such an extent that sex dolls are becoming increasingly lifelike. They look, feel and respond like real people, lending to a more realistic sexual experience.
There are still debates as to whether sex dolls should be considered ‘cheating’, and also questions over their morality. And, naturally, there will always be people who aren’t comfortable with the idea. But for those who are interested in exploring the possibilities of this kind of physical and emotional intimacy, it can be a great way to explore and learn more about themselves, their partners and their sexuality.